(sites with items for sale are not endorsed by me, and are for reference purposes only)
Atlas Nitrile Touch gloves- they come in candy colors! (or black if you want to be boring)
http://www.amazon.com/Atlas-Garden-Gloves-Assorted-Colors/dp/B001BVG7JK/ref=pd_sbs_lg_1
Felco Pruners-several sizes, I like the #6 for my smaller hands
http://www.felcostore.com/pruners
Digging tool- here's a site with some reviews, I happen to agree!
http://www.northcoastgardening.com/2009/04/hori-horis-soil-knives-trowels-review/
- Hori-Hori
- Soil Scoop
Plant tie- you need something like this for your peas:
http://www.homedepot.com/p/Gardener-s-Blue-Ribbon-Sturdy-Stretch-Plant-Tie-T007A/100662499
Gardening basket- What are you going to carry everything in? Don't forget to add a stash of plastic bags for your harvest! I got one of these as a gift years ago and just love it.
http://www.amazon.com/Overseas-Connection-G-159A-Market-Basket/dp/B000FRYCNO/ref=sr_1_1?s=home-garden&ie=UTF8&qid=1364583266&sr=1-1&keywords=overseas+connection
Where we like to order seeds- heirloom, open source, organic etc.
Baker Creek Heirloom Seeds- you can visit them in Petaluma or http://rareseeds.com/
Peaceful Valley http://www.groworganic.com/
Bountiful Gardens http://www.bountifulgardens.org/
Golden Gate Gardening by Pam Peirce
http://www.indiebound.org/book/9781570616174